After a break up you may find that you still love your ex. However you are not sure whether your ex feels the same way as you do. Though it is quite probable that your ex doesn’t love you anymore there is an equal possibility that they were lying when they declared they had moved on in life. Couples who break up could still continue to feel love for each other.
If you are absolutely sure and convinced that you still love your ex you stand a good chance of being reunited with your ex. Your ex will surely love you for your honest feelings for them.
If the split was your ex’s decision, before you decide to get back to your ex you need to look back at your relationship and analyze the reasons for the split. Immediately after the break up your emotions may get the better of you and make you pine for your ex. So it is important to maintain a balanced mind and objectively consider whether the break up is actually good for you. In that case it would be better to move on.
If the split was a mutual decision then checking out the reasons for the split assumes greater significance. It is likely that the pain that the split caused has made you forget the seriousness of the reasons that made you want to quit the relationship. By reminding yourself of them you can judge whether it is wise to go back to your ex again. Such an afterthought might make you realize that it is better to try and overcome the pain than waste more time and effort in a relationship that was weak from the start.
If both you and your ex feel that you still love each other after splitting up a make up would be easy, quick and simple. But even in such a scenario you can’t afford to overlook the reasons why you split. Although after the patch up initially both of you would be very happy about not losing each other, it is certain that after a while the reasons for the previous split up would rise again. Then both of you would have to face the break up pain yet again. You can avoid a whole lot of unnecessary suffering by carefully evaluating the reasons for the break up before you get back with your ex.
If you and your ex really want to be back together and enter into a lasting relationship both of you should ensure that the old problems that led to the split up do not rise again. You can prevent the possibility of another break up in the future by taking the help of a couple’s counselor. This will go a long way in making your relationship with the ex you still love, a success, after you win them back.
T Dub Jackson is the best-selling author on how to get back with your ex. He has helped literally thousands of people reunite with their loved ones after a break-up. Do not despair! Never give up hope that ‘all is lost’.
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