You shed tears, called each other names and swore that you will have nothing to do with each other. But then you start missing your ex. You start wondering if he/she is still interested in you. How do you find out? You can start by analyzing if he/she still shows interest in you. Maybe your ex shows willingness to spend more time with you, pays you more attention or has even started mildly flirting with you. If this is the scene, you have a chance for hope. But do not draw conclusions from this faint flicker of hope.
There could be many reasons why you feel that your ex still has feelings for you but human beings are complex creatures. You could very well be misreading the signals. It would be best not to react immediately. Look at these developments in a levelheaded manner. Do not go running back to him/her confessing your undying love just because they happened to look your way. Do not yield to your ex easily. This will give the impression that you are just craving their love (this might be true but don’t let your ex find that out!) and this might only drive them away from you. In fact, if you are not that easily available, they might get all the more eager to get you.
There could be some who are showing interest in you just to lead you on. They get some kind of sadistic pleasure in exploiting your sentiments. Breakups are always bitter and not everyone forgives that easily. Your ex could be using you just to get a few laughs. Some could also be doing this for kicks- a person fawning all over one can be great ego-boost! There could be yet others, who are reacting unintentionally; they might just be reacting to you, having no intentions of getting back with you.
Yearning for your ex’s company is natural. If you spent considerable time together, it is possible that both of you miss each other. Two people in a relationship share much more with each other than with any other human being, in such a case, wiping it all off can be tough. Your ex might be feeling these emotions too. But do not forget that you both broke up for a reason. Those issues still remain and can crop again. Besides you both were hurt during the breakup, will both of you be able to forgive and forget? Going back to each other is not that simple.
If you are convinced that you still have feelings for your ex and have a glimmer of hope that your ex also feels the same, then just wait and watch. Keep a reasonable distance. Make an effort not to yield too easily. Do not get hurt a second time.
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