Alright, I will agree that I have been dumped more than once. Actually more than the times I would actually like to agree. Although it hurts every time when you are dumped by you girl, but you always learn some thing and gain a lot of experience also. Thus, here are few things which I have learned when I was dumped by my woman.
Point One: It always happen because of both the partners.
It is very easy to hold your partner responsible for the breakup or being dumped. But the actual truth is that you are also a part of the entire trouble. Weigh up what actually went wrong which has caused your girl to take up such a cruel step and apply whatever you learn in your other relationship in the future.
Point Two: Give space to your woman.
The women love to hug and cuddle a lot. They may look to be around always but actually they demand their space too. Normally, men become very possessive about their women. They always want to keep a note of what their women are doing and where they are going. If a guy is cheated by her girl, this nature of over possessiveness becomes stronger. You need to trust your woman but if you overrun her space, she might feel that you do not trust her. And it may cause your girlfriend to take up a step of dumping you.
Point Three: You get fine with time.
You may feel very bad when your woman dumps you and you feel that you will never be able to come out of it. But sooner or later, with the passage of time, you will be able to come out of it as a better and stronger person. As it is said by the philosopher Nietzsche that what cannot harm me helps me to get stronger.
Point Four: Think positive and take it as if she was not for you.
You can get out of the break up easily if you think positively and believe that she was not for you. Even if you had built up the castle of your marriage, kids and a lovely home in the air and finally you broke up, take it as if it happened for your own good. Think that it is good that she dumped you now rather than afterward.
Point Five: If you do not try to make good things happen to you, it won’t happen to you.
Lastly, the final thing I would like to disclose or share with everyone is that you can not direct what has already happened but your reaction for the same can be controlled. If you wish that goods things happen in the life ahead, then you have to work on them.
If you are dumped by a woman, it does not mean that your life has come to an end and you will not have any relationship in the future. Go out and meet new people or rather new women. Enjoy with them and ultimately you will find yourself in another relationship.
If you have read the points mentioned in this article and decide to avoid which might result in a breakup, then you can probably have a stronger and better relationship in the future than your last relation.
